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catastrophyWTF?! MORON.
Emotional Cat wants to kick his fucking teeth in.
Rational Cat has a few choice words for him too.
She called me tonight in tears. You made my little sis cry, you dirtbag!
I comforted her as best I could, and I tried to remind her she's still loved, that she's accomplished great things and will keep building new parts of her life.
She doesn't have the most bolstered self-image, and I know for a fact that she made all kinds of accommodations and excuses for his selfish behavior in the past and that she was trying to plan for a future together after college. I hope that she understood when I told her she's damn well entitled to have a relationship where her partner loves her as much as she loves him, and is willing to put forth the effort to make her feel appreciated and build a life together.
UGH.
Emotional Cat wants to kick his fucking teeth in.
Rational Cat has a few choice words for him too.
She called me tonight in tears. You made my little sis cry, you dirtbag!
I comforted her as best I could, and I tried to remind her she's still loved, that she's accomplished great things and will keep building new parts of her life.
She doesn't have the most bolstered self-image, and I know for a fact that she made all kinds of accommodations and excuses for his selfish behavior in the past and that she was trying to plan for a future together after college. I hope that she understood when I told her she's damn well entitled to have a relationship where her partner loves her as much as she loves him, and is willing to put forth the effort to make her feel appreciated and build a life together.
UGH.
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Date: 2009-10-25 12:58 am (UTC)How long were they together?
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Date: 2009-10-25 02:59 pm (UTC)Apparently she asked him to take a week to consider, and he said he didn't need that long---he only needed an hour. Jerk.
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Date: 2009-10-25 04:50 pm (UTC)